In spite of what many of you may think and how many excuses you can come up with for a man who is not putting enough effort in pursuing you, still, the main reason why a man is not coming strong enough when it comes for you it is because he is just not that into you. Period.
It is not that he is shy. It is not that he is intimidated by your independence and strength. He simply doesn’t like you enough.
And it all comes down to the simple fact that men love the chase. They love the pursuit. They love to be the initiators in the relationship. For centuries, men have always been the pursuers and women the gatherers. It is all in their blood.
So, when a man realizes that he cares about a woman and that he wants to be with – he’ll go after her. He’ll pursue her. If you are in love with someone and he knows it, but he is not doing anything about it – then the truth is he is not interested in you.
Ladies listen to me. A man may give you a million excuses as to why he can’t be with you. He may tell you he is overwhelmed with work, family issues blah blah blah. All these excuses won’t matter when he meets a woman that he truly likes.
So, if it looks as if someone doesn’t give a damn about you, the harsh truth is – he doesn’t. Men are really simple when it comes to expressing their emotions. Usually, there are no hidden messages for you to decipher. When they want something, they go after it. They don’t overthink. And certainly, they don’t make excuses for it.
Be the strong woman that you are and walk away from men who make you wonder where you stand with them. Leave the men that don’t want to commit to you in a real way. Don’t pursue a man who is not interested in you. Let him go. You are better than that.
Because, a real man, a man who really cares about you – he will pursue you every single day. He will be always looking for ways to surprise you and let you know how much he loves you and how much he wants to be with you.
He will never risk losing you. He will always pick up the phone. He will inspire you. He will compliment you. He will take your hand and kiss you everywhere he can. He will not play with your feelings. You will always know where you stand with him. You will never be anxious and confused. You will never have second thoughts or doubts about his feelings for you.
You will be a priority for him.
Ladies, never let a man take you for granted. Wait for someone who knows what he has when he has you.